Charlie, your candid exploration of the emotional toll and identity struggle in the journey of trying to conceive resonates deeply. Navigating societal expectations, medical interventions, and the constant pressure to do more for a baby, your honesty sheds light on the unspoken challenges many face. The conflict between personal identity, lifestyle, and the desire to win in this complex journey is palpable. It's a powerful call to challenge societal norms and acknowledge the unfair burden placed on those dealing with infertility. Wishing you strength and clarity as you navigate this journey on your terms. 🌸